Pos1964 Posted December 2, 2012 Share Posted December 2, 2012 After almost 3 horrible weeks, there's finally some "normal" living back in the house. Don't get me wrong, I fully understand the hell you sufferers live in and I definitely don't want to seem like I know what you're feeling because I don't! I'm just a partner of a sufferer and trying to help any way I can. But.....after the last couple of weeks I need, I have to vent, I'm sorry about that. So here's my frustration written down. - I'm so tired of people that don't understand what CH is. - I'm so tired explaining over and over again that I'm not anÂ Â insensitive person just because I'm not sitting by his side during an attack. It hurts me too but he doesn't want anyone around while having an attack! - I feel so useless seeing him suffering and not be able to help! - I' m angry when people say that "everyone has a headache every once in a while", and than look at me as if I'm exaggerating when I say it's more than just a headache. - Sometimes I'm tired to do everything alone when he's getting hit all the time. - I'm angry because all the neurologists he went to, don't know what to do anymore, he's just a "rare" case"! - I'm hurt because he's a victim of this condition. And please dear, don't tell me you're doing fine when I can see your not! Don't tell me not to worry, because I will anyway. Don't tell me I'm better of without you so I can live a "normal" life! Please don't feel guilty when I cry for you sometimes. Let me deal with this horrible condition you have, my way! Sorry if I offended somebody, that is not my intention at all. I just needed to get this off my chest.... Elly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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