I'd like thank you guys so much. It pretty much sounds like I have a pretty good chance of NOT getting them, I guess it also helps that it'll be even more rare since I am female and that these "headaches" weren't passed down to my mother, since she is the only one out of our whole family who has these awful things. It also helps to know that reading about CHer's who have kids, almost all that I have read they have not been passed down to their children, and the only ones I have read that were passed down were father's passing down to a son and a father passing it down to a daughter, but that was pretty much it. I haven't heard of anything else about passing it down to their children, it's almost like it was maybe a coincidence.
And yes, I remember my mother getting on this site CONSTANTLY. She was always trying to help other's out and even tried to find help from other people as well. The last time she has been on was somewhere around october, and I told her that she should get on here very soon.